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Today, as I considered my seven-time rebuilt knees and the example others have shown of 300 burpees per day as part of marathon prep, I decided to run my first 5k in a very long time prior to Burpee time.
(Yes, my bride too said with my knees it made no sense.)
Did I win?
Was I really racing is a better question.
But I was reminded of an important lesson that applies to all leaders.
As I ran (note: I am using the term ‘ran’ very loosely) …
… I noticed one runner in particular pass me. Younger and faster he was. But the reason I noticed him was his runner’s gait. Frenetic energy one might say. All arms and legs moving in a jitterbug dance like fashion carrying him well beyond my line of site and yet drawing attention as he went … from me and many others.
Now don’t get me wrong, my ego began to kick in and I truly wanted to get after it and compete.
But I thought the better of it and maintained my pace. The pace I knew based on my understanding of me that I could maintain to achieve the outcome (the goal) I set for myself.
As I rounded one of the last turns of the beautiful Back Cove here in Portland Maine I saw my jitterbugging competition bending over with one hand on a tree, supporting his now much stilled frame, as he gasped to take in air.
And after a brief check in as to his status, I continued on my way to the finish line.
The old fable includes much wisdom.
For me on this day, I was reminded that as a leader we must …
– check our ego at the door
– understand the competition and what they are doing
– with wisdom, set a pace that is right for us
– check in often and reset as necessary, while not losing our True North
– hardwire (perfect) the basics first
– celebrate each win along the way
– help others (by lifting all boats we all win)
– never stop until goal is achieved
– then set next goal
And now I apparently also know why people run…to learn leadership and life lessons.